Fantastic example of embracing the growth mindset. Most of us over the age of 45-50, etc. were raised in a fixed mindset world… so embracing this approach requires a true mindset shift. Thanks for showing us the way!
"It requires emotional and intellectual awareness, as well as the courage to recognize when persistence is no longer in one’s best interest. Maturely quitting means understanding that leaving a situation isn’t failure but rather choosing what is right over what is easy."
Thank you for this whole essay. I have 14 year old kids and we've been pretty focused on having them finish what they start. This piece offers us a better perspective for making a healthy choice. Thank you!
Thanks, James! I was a firm believer in 'sticking with it,' too. Until I realized my oldest was relentlessly pursuing an old dream that no longer interested or excited her - or even fit her skill set. Watching her pivot and head in a new direction has been eye-opening and a thrill to watch.
Erin- I like this thought process on sticking it out and some of the pitfalls of this approach. Probably should be more talked about not just in schools but at home, too. I appreciate you sharing this. Hope you’re well this week? Cheers, -Thalia
Looking back, I probably quit too soon at times. However, I'll never regret the times when I had the courage to 'listen to my inner voice,' muster the courage to quit something that didn't feel right, and take the 'Road Less Traveled.' I was rewarded with growth, freedom and joy.
Fantastic example of embracing the growth mindset. Most of us over the age of 45-50, etc. were raised in a fixed mindset world… so embracing this approach requires a true mindset shift. Thanks for showing us the way!
Thank you! I'm so glad you found it valuable.
"It requires emotional and intellectual awareness, as well as the courage to recognize when persistence is no longer in one’s best interest. Maturely quitting means understanding that leaving a situation isn’t failure but rather choosing what is right over what is easy."
Thank you for this whole essay. I have 14 year old kids and we've been pretty focused on having them finish what they start. This piece offers us a better perspective for making a healthy choice. Thank you!
Thanks, James! I was a firm believer in 'sticking with it,' too. Until I realized my oldest was relentlessly pursuing an old dream that no longer interested or excited her - or even fit her skill set. Watching her pivot and head in a new direction has been eye-opening and a thrill to watch.
Erin- I like this thought process on sticking it out and some of the pitfalls of this approach. Probably should be more talked about not just in schools but at home, too. I appreciate you sharing this. Hope you’re well this week? Cheers, -Thalia
Thank you, Thalia!
You know I love this, Erin! Quitting well develops self-agency and counter-intuitively, resilience to stick it out when it matters.
Exactly! And thank you!! I know I'm on the right track if it resonates with you.
Looking back, I probably quit too soon at times. However, I'll never regret the times when I had the courage to 'listen to my inner voice,' muster the courage to quit something that didn't feel right, and take the 'Road Less Traveled.' I was rewarded with growth, freedom and joy.