School, Learning, and Everything in Between

PARENTreads Issue No. 5: Essays on education, support, and what learning looks like in every form

No two kids learn the same way—and education isn’t what it used to be. Between shifting methodologies, new technology, and the growing rise of alternative and home-based learning, parents today are rethinking what “school” even means. This edition of PARENTreads explores how kids learn, how parents adapt, and what it takes to meet evolving needs in a world where learning happens everywhere—and sometimes doesn’t, where it should be happening most.

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✨ Featured Writer

Jennifer Shonkoff is a speech-language pathologist and child development expert based in New York City. She writes The Childhood Curator, where she shares resources and equips caregivers with practical strategies to support language development through real-world learning.

Homeschool Became Our Only “School Choice”
I spoke with Latham Turner, author of Building the Plane, about his family’s journey to Montana and their decision to homeschool after consecutive school experiences couldn’t meet his son’s individual needs.
» Read the full essay here

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📌 Editor’s Picks

7 Learning Problems Project-Based Learning Solves Better Than Anything Else - by Shari Keller | Quest for Learning
When learning feels pointless, kids tune out. Project-based learning flips the script—reigniting curiosity, confidence, and real-world problem-solving skills.
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Finding Solace and Strength on Vermont’s Long Trail - by Jesse C. McEntee | Next Adventure
For those who struggle in traditional classrooms, the outdoors offers focus, freedom, and clarity. A heartfelt story of learning through movement and exploration.
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Books that Grow Problem Solvers - by Lindsay | KidLit Grove
Frustration isn’t failure—it’s growth in disguise. This book list helps kids turn everyday struggles into problem-solving superpowers, one story at a time.
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Research Digest: The Screen-Time Studies Every Parent and Teacher Should Read - by Andrew Cantarutti | The Walled Garden Education
Even moderate daily screen use lowers reading and memory scores. Parenting move: cut passive screen hours, boost hands-on play, and shared reading to protect attention.
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Using Your Community: A Practical and Inspiring Guide for Home Educators - by Beverley Paine | The Educating Parent
Who needs worksheets? Real learning happens in the wild—through people, places, and purpose. This guide makes your community the ultimate homeschool resource.
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No, My Kid Didn’t Do the Worksheet. And I’m Not Sorry. - by Lizzie Assa | The Workspace for Children
Homework isn’t sacred. If it’s draining your child and stealing their joy, you’re allowed to say no. This post offers clarity, compassion, and a script to opt out with confidence.
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Rethinking Your College List: Why You Should Consider a CTCL School - by Carrie Jorgenson | The Nest
Forget rankings. Colleges That Change Lives highlights 45 small schools that prioritize students—offering a personal and powerful education beyond the Ivy League spotlight.
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AI in Education Part 4: Decoding The Struggle Beneath the Behavior - by Lara Carlson | The Parenting Edge
We’ve become really good at labeling behaviors—oppositional, defiant, disruptive, withdrawn—but not nearly as good at understanding what those behaviors communicate.
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Is My Toddler Ready for Preschool? - by Brooke and Christin | Elevate Toddler Play
Preschool readiness isn’t about perfection—it’s built in everyday moments. This guide shows how connection, communication, and play help toddlers feel ready to take that next step.
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Reading For Fun: Why it’s normal for kids to avoid recreational reading—and when it’s actually worth worrying about - by Dr. Katie Davis | TeenSights
Parents worry when kids don’t read for fun, but reading is work for students, and like adults unwinding from their jobs, kids may prefer other activities.
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When Middle School Feels Like Free Falling - by The Neurodivergent Uprising
Middle school exposes more than missing homework; it tests your systems, your sanity, and your scaffolding. This guide helps you rebuild executive function—together.
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What to Do When Kids Coast in School: A practical guide for parents - by Jenny Anderson and Rebecca Winthrop | How to Be Brave
Good grades, zero effort? Your kid might be in Passenger mode—cruising through school, but missing real growth. Here’s how to spark curiosity and motivation again.
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Tips to Make the Most of Parent/Teacher Conferences - by Amanda Brown | Type A Mom
Make the most of your 20-minute parent/teacher conference with smart prep, the right questions, and clear communication. Type A mom shares her go-to strategies for a smoother, more productive meeting.
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Do Math, Touch Grass, Repeat - by Sebastian Gutierrez | Kids Who Love Math
Loving math shouldn’t mean losing balance. When passion turns into pressure, kids risk burnout. Let them lead, keep perspective, and make space for joy beyond the numbers.
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The Eight Essentials: What Every High School Parent Needs Now by Irena Smith | The Curmudgeon’s Guide to College Admissions
Forget the AI-approved checklist. What high school parents actually need: perspective, a hobby, friends who swear—and the radical belief that it’ll all be okay.
» Read here

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If you’ve been enjoying PARENTreads, a one-time contribution is a great way to say thanks—and helps keep these issues free for everyone.

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Writers: Would you like to contribute a relevant essay on traditions, challenges, joys, or stress during the holiday season? DM me to get on the list—submissions open next week. (It’ll be an “All Are Welcome” issue, like Issue No. 1.)

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